When you got right down to the place where the cheese binds, there was no such thing as marriage, no such thing as union, that each soul stood alone and ultimately defied rationality. That was the mystery. And no matter how well you thought you knew your partner, you occasionally ran into blank walls or fell into pits. And sometimes (rarely, thank God) you ran into a full-fledged pocket of alien strangeness, something like the clear-air turbulence that can buffet an airliner for no reason at all. An attitude or belief which you had never suspected, one so peculiar (at least to you) that it seemed nearly psychotic. And then you trod lightly, if you valued your marriage and your peace of mind; you tried to remember that anger at such a discovery was the province of fools who really believed it was possible for one mind to know another.Stephen King
About This Quote
In this quote, J.D. Salinger explains the importance of a loyal marital relationship. Throughout his life, while married, he was not allowed to see his children until they were grown and while he was aware of this restriction, he had a strong feeling that this was something that was wrong. In the end, his wife ran off with another man and this led to a divorce.
This divorce had a great impact on Salinger's life and caused him to consider himself alone for the rest of his life. He had no one to share ideas with and had never been able to form a close bond with anyone before. In order to be happy in life, you have to have people who can share ideas with you and give you strength when times get tough.
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